5 Best Psychological Hacks to Approach a Girl in a Nightclub and Succeed

A weekend party in a nightclub is what you need to refresh your mind from the long boring week that you had. It is a great place to chill and hangout with your buddies but if you see a hot girl and get a chance to have a nice time with her, doesn’t that sound great? So here is a list of the techniques that we compiled from real encounters and the techniques that girls actually fell for. #1. Be Confident The idea of approaching a girl may sound cool to many but most of them don’t have the balls to do so. By don’t have balls what I mean to say is they reject themselves even before the girl rejects him. Being confident does not mean you behave inappropriately with a girl. Introduce yourself confidently and talk something unrelated to you.

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  #2. Don’t Bragg a lot about yourself This problem is there with a lot of first timers. They freak out and in that course often say things only to regret later. Garima recalls her experience and says, a guy approached her and started talking about the BMW he drives and how he loves to spend his weekends mostly in 5 Star resorts. I mean who does that? If you do so then accept the fact your hand will be your best friend for a long time.

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  #3. Talk about the Music the DJ is playing Talking about things that are completely neutral and seems like a natural conversation is the best way to break the ice. Don’t ask a lot of personal questions nor reveal a lot of things about yourself. Leave these for the future dates to come. Also asking a lot of irrelevant questions makes you an “Askhole”. A total turn-off for any girl!

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  #4. Cheesy Pickup lines are Out-dated   “Can I buy the beautiful lady a drink?” Unless you are Pierce Brosnan from Bond Series then it is very less likely to work. If you are doing this, you are at your own risk. The beautiful lady does not like a douche and you will be labeled as a pervert in a fraction of a time.

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  #5. There is plenty of fish in the sea Even after being a gallant gentleman if you fail to score don’t be disheartened. Don’t waste your time on difficult questions, try the easier ones first. Don’t do it too often in a single bar. It may so happen you first approach the girl who gave a cold shoulder and your next target is someone in her group.

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